Who are your real friends?

Have you taken a good look at who you surround yourself with lately?


You know the saying:

"Show me your top five friends and I will show you your future"?

It is what it is whether you like it or not. Your vibe truly does attract your tribe. Birds of a feather really do flock together. You can learn a lot about where you are in your life right now by observing who you are choosing to surround yourself with. Are they negative or positive? Which are you and what would you like to be? You should choose your friends accordingly.


Not every relationship is meant to last forever. Most people in our lives will come and go. They might have entered into our lives to teach us lessons or to help us along our way. Typically, the more we grow as people, the more change we will experience all around. Relationships with others are no exception. When we let go of what no longer serves us, we are then opening ourselves up to receive that which is in alignment with our newly found growth.



It's difficult to navigate through this sometimes. We don't want to hurt someone's feelings or let another person down. However, it is just as beneficial to them that you let go (if needed) as it is for you. Everyone has their own personal journey and path. Staying true to your own may mean making difficult decisions, however, it benefits everyone that surrounds you by default. You may not witness it first hand, but trust that it will happen in the perfect timing.


Your friends should help you bring out the best in you, have a better self-perception of yourself. They should help you see the true person that you are! They should align with your goals and/or be there to cheer you on. Share in your motivation, encourage you to pursue more, and inspire you with their own actions.


💗Cathlene